People truly feel that they are totally single before the ring is placed on their ring finger. Doesn’t mean a thing to them even if they have been part of a serious relationship for 3 years, if the ring isn’t on they believe they have some type of freedom. This is where the saying THE LAST FLING BEFORE THE RING becomes a reality right before marriage. There is a controversial discussion to decide of this way of mind set is right or wrong. Have you put much thought into this?
Do you think it is right for a person to have a fling the day before they make the promise to be faithful? Or do you totally think it is wrong? Once you are in a relationship then you are already in a faithful partnership and there is no reason to have THE LAST FLING BEFORE THE RING type of mindset. For those that do have this view you should let your fiancé or fiancée know this about yourself, so there are no surprises right before the wedding. Good luck to each and every one of you for the decisions you make in regards to this situation.